How to not obsess about image and looks?

Obsessing over your looks and appearance doesnt have to be a bad thing. The absolute first thing people rate you on when making a first impression is your appearance. If you work hard to make yourself look as good-looking as possible, the more people you are going to give a better first impression to, the more friends and contacts you will have. There is nothing wrong with wanting to look good, look like a star, and wanting to do that all the time.