Mom bs daughter helpppp?

Hi I'm 23 yrs old and I have never lived with my mother before. She lives in NJ and I live I'm ga. I usually come to visit her once a year. This year is my boyfriend first time coming to the north and so far my mom to me is being selfish. I know I'm inpatient but we had everyday planned out and so far it's what she wants to do. My mother wanted us to go up state to her friend farm bc he wanted to see me. To go up there we had to undress and put on some old clothes we got filthy so we all came back to my mothers to shower. We all are dressed and she is lying down on the phone. She wants to go to NYC tonight but all the stores clothes tonight. I told her we wanted to go now and she is like I'm on the phone excuse me. I'm really upset bc everytime I come up here we never get a long but we get along great over the phone. She loves me and i love her but I don't think this is fair. What do you guys think?